Law of Attraction

Law of attraction... So I’ve heard the term before but never really knew what it meant until now.

In the month of September, I started saying after watching a viral tik-tok audio “I don’t chase I attract, what’s meant for me will come to me.” whenever I wanted to reach out to someone or chase a friendship that was one-sided I would stop myself.

Every time I felt myself chasing or just in passing I started saying my affirmation, and within the first day or so I started to see results.

Now, part of this experiment I was trying out, was a mindset shift. I started pulling back from friendships that were becoming one-sided, maybe even letting go of any expectations of what the friendships actually were. Allowing my energy to focus on myself and new people unexpectly started appearing in my life.

For example, one girl who went to my high school before the pandemic had now graduated that I always admired for her ambition. One of her friends reached out to me to hang out and while we were all hanging out in a group setting (we were talking about how goal-oriented we were// when’s the last time I talked to someone my age who asked me what my goals currently were …. (NEVER) I had a great time and she is now in my network. She has hit me up when she needs some and vice/versa.

One thing I started noticing Is that, although I don’t chase, if I want to do something I am going to reach out to people who make me feel good and ask if they want to come. I started doing things by myself, which is something I‘ve been meaning to work more on anyways, but that way if ther’re busy or don’t want to hang out I can still do what I want to do. with or without them.

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